Summer Learning: What Parents Need to Know

Our students have just completed what has been described as one of the wonkiest and stressful years in their educational lives. What are the steps parents should take this summer to help their child prepare from the perspective of a curriculum and instruction expert? You might be surprised!

Take time to recharge. This is first on the list for a reason. Adults and children alike need a chance to recover from a year that has felt strange and different. Put the pause button on “learning loss worry”. Instead, just focus on connecting with your child outside of academics. Without the opportunity for a reset, burn out can take over for both parent and child. Students will be able to take on a new school year and be prepared and more likely to feel positive about re-entering the classroom if their brain is well-rested.

Make space for downtime. Allowing children to bask in unstructured play and activities is an invitation for preparing them for life. Innovation is something that can be flexed, but never forced. Get curious about what activities your child likes to do when there is nothing on the schedule and encourage them to think outside the tech box. Do they like to build forts, draw, color? Help them identify things they like to do and then just let them have space to do it.

Be experience oriented. This doesn’t have to be costly, either. Go to the park. Have a water play day. Find a local bakery and ask if they would be willing to show a few interested elementary age kids what goes on behind the scenes. Get creative. Get curious about what’s out there to do. Don’t worry about fancy and expensive outings if that’s outside your budget. The memories will be just as special. And who knows? Maybe a new family tradition or activity will be discovered!

Of course, I always encourage parents to provide opportunities for reading and math literacy. But this year, more than ever, our children need to experience that little bit extra of childhood, free from the concerns of academics.

When you parent, you are your child’s first teacher. When you teach, you touch the future and that’s a pretty amazing place to be!

Tune in tomorrow as I will share ideas on how to address learning in fun ways that blend in with summer activities


Learning Loss? A realistic approach to in-person learning

As kids start filtering back for in-person learning, teachers, parents, and administration are left with the question: Where do we begin?

From the outset, it seems a momentous task to know just how to answer that question. Overwhelming, really. The challenge of transitioning back to a new normal where social distancing protocols will still be in place add additional layers to the task at hand for school officials. And at the center of it all is our most precious resource: our children.

To answer this question, it is fundamental that we lay a foundation. When we teach, we teach the whole child. Not just the brain, not just the child’s intellect. These are human beings that we are shaping. And humans are complex. Even if we were to solely focus on a child’s academic needs, research has shown over and over again the interlocking nature of a child’s social emotional well-being and their academic success. But we know that education is so much more than academic knowledge. We are teaching children ways to analyze and to approach their world, socially and emotionally. The purpose should be to help children thrive and for that we cannot ignore the very ways in which the events of the past year have affected our children.

Focus on social and emotional learning. Some might feel we just don’t have time, but truly we cannot afford to not spend time on children’s social emotional health. It is core to who we are as humans and basic psychology (think Maslow’s hierarchy) that our primary needs must first be met. And children have had a doozy of a year. They need us to lead the way in processing and naming the emotions that are coming along for the ride. Create space within your classroom that is peaceful. Let children know this is a safe space and then make sure that it IS a safe place emotionally and socially. Make sure to build a classroom community and help children learn the skills they need to communicate in a healthy ways. Both role play and constructed collaboration, where children learn the proper ways to communicate can be helpful. Providing students with routines and classroom traditions can also help solidify the classroom community. When children feel safe, they are twice as likely to learn. More importantly, they go out into the world as healthy human beings.

Identify critical skills for grade level success and know each student’s skill level for each of the identified critical skills. Critical skills are those skills that are not only fundamental to grade level success but can also be identified by looking at the scope and sequence across the grade levels to see which skills are continuously mentioned. Once identified, look for quick and efficient ways to implement formative assessment on these skills throughout the year and address them in small groups repeatedly. While the amount of skills covered in a grade level can be overwhelming for teachers, by targeting critical skills (while still covering all grade level skills, of course) we efficiently address gaps in learning for every child in a way that provides accessibility for each student and promotes growth.

If you are in need of some ideas on how to do this, contact me for additional support. I would love to work with you to help you develop this system as I did in my own classroom for 20 years. Check out my on-line or in-person sessions on my website for more info.

When you teach, you touch the future. And that is a pretty amazing place to be!


Is ADHD Real? Myths and Misconceptions

During a recent conversation, the topic of ADHD in children came up. “Don’t you think that ADHD is all made up?,” the individual countered. I have to admit, this caught me off guard. My profound and personal understanding of ADHD, the very real nature of it, and the unique way in which the ADHD brain is wired had prompted me to forget that many still lack the fundamental understanding of just what ADHD is. I had forgotten that the need for education still exists, that there are those who still believe it is an excuse for “poor parenting”, rather than the physiological complexity of a brain that is differently wired. The individual I spoke with maintains an impact on a wide variety of families and so I took the opportunity to gently share with her very real information I knew through experience and learning. Following are some real facts about ADHD that will help those who are new to or skeptical of such the ADHD diagnosis and how a lens shift can make a world of difference in helping students with ADHD to access learning.

  1. ADHD Medications are Stimulants Not Tranquilizers. While not all who receive a diagnosis of ADHD choose to utilize medication as a treatment, it is important to dispel a common misconception about the family of medications used for the treatment of ADD and ADHD. While many assume ADHD medication is a tranquilizer, the most commonly used medications used to treat ADHD are, in reality, stimulants. The ADHD brain is physiologically wired differently and responds differently to the stimulant. A person with clinical ADHD will become calm and more focused when given a stimulant (including caffeine!), while a neurotypical brain will become hyper. This response indicates that the ADHD brain is truly and physiologically wired differently.

2. Children with ADHD are doing the best they can. When you think about it, can you imagine that any human, child or adult, would go day after day constantly feeling the challenges of ADHD by choice? Constantly “in trouble,” ostracized by peers, missing recess once again because work is not complete ( I truly hope that this practice no longer exists, but when I was in school it was the only thing the teacher knew to do)… the list goes on and on. In his book, Lost at School (2014), Dr. Ross Greene, uncovers a major flaw in the way we address such behavior challenges in school. His premise rests on this simple fact: “Kids do the best they can.” And when children are struggling, it is our responsibility not just to send them up to the office again or suspend them, but to find out the WHY of the behavior and to uncover best practices to help that child succeed. Otherwise, we risk yet another child lost to a system that does not recognize children who do not fit within the “classroom box.” And the consequences of that are huge for society as a whole.

3.Typical patterns of consequence and reward may not work with a child that has ADHD. For many nuerotypical children who are developing at an average rate, the stick and carrot method may be just enough to motivate. (Truly, motivation should be fostered within the child, but that is a different story for a different day.) Again, going back to Dr. Greene’s model as it applies to the school environment, consequence and reward systems typically used in PBIS and other systems in schools, may not be enough to get a child whose brain is differently wired to learn differently. Too often, the assumption is that there is a lack of parenting. Trust me, there are many, many parents out there exhausting their resources trying to find out how to help their child function, only to find out that consequences and rewards (no matter how consistent) provided no change. Remember, the ADHD brain is wired differently. Much like the ADHD brain does not respond the same to stimulants as the nuerotypical brain, it may not respond the same to consequence and reward. Depending on the child, the ADHD brain may not have the executive functions developed enough to make sense of such a system. These children need our guidance and direction, not punitive consequences. And a little secret most miss: the ADHD child is just as miserable in the midst of their challenges, too. With this lens shift we can approach the ADHD child, not as a “problem”, but with compassion.

4. Children with ADHD may also overlap with giftedness. While ADHD is considered a “learning disabilty,” many children with this type of wiring are also gifted in the very truest sense of the word. When this happens, we refer to it as being twice-exceptional, because the child’s learning disability is overlapped with their giftedness. Children with ADHD often possess an almost super-human ability to perseverate on topics that interest them to the point of becoming experts. Many times this ability to hyperfocus that defies their otherwise unfocused brain is misconstrued to mean that they only focus “when they want to,” once again shifting ADHD into a blame game, rather than finding ways to help a child learn ways to be successful. There is much to do in regards to providing access to gifted programs for the ADHD student. Many schools require straight A’s just to be screened for the gifted program, forgetting that some of our most brilliant thinkers of all times would not have made it into the gifted program under that burden. Getting straight A’s in school is not a mark of IQ but rather of academic talent in which a student is able to comply with the “in the box” expectations of the classroom (such as completion of work without distraction). Many of these students would find themselves much more engaged in school if allowed to access enrichment opportunities.

5. ADHD behaviors and effects go well beyond hyperactivity and behavior issues. A student with ADHD may outwardly appear overactive and always on the go, but there are underlying co-existing factors we must consider. Many ADHD children have a heightened sensitivity towards correction. While some may appear indifferent, this is often the protective shell they have developed. Additionally, they often lack executive functioning skills and experience developmental delays in their ability to order tasks. Keeping these facts in mind help us to be compassionate towards students whose brain is wired diversely!

6. And a bonus suggestion: if you are an individual parenting or teaching a young human with ADHD, make sure to leave room to have compassion for yourself. Guiding a nuerodiverse brain is draining, so ease up on yourself. When we teach we touch the future, and that is a pretty amazing place to be!


Greene, R. (2014). Lost at school. NewYork: Scribner.


Tricks of the Teaching Trade: How to Help Your Child Blend Words!

In this short video I provide an easy and effective strategy that can be completed in 5 minutes to help children learn how to blend words together! Perfect for pre-readers or emergent readers, or any student who is having difficulty learning to blend letters… this will help! All you need is yourself, a flat surface, and 3 lego bricks! Here we go…


Teacher Tricks of the Trade for Distance Learning

In this short video, I share ways to maximize minutes with your child while reading and to really blend together a bonding time with learning.


Mothers of Struggling Superheroes!!

Welcome to Mothers of Struggling Superheroes!! (M.O.S.S.) We are a tribe of women parenting a kid with superpowers, such as ADHD, Autism Spectrum, Twice-Exceptional (identified as gifted with learning disabilities), or have a child who has emotional, behavioral, or educational challenges. If this sounds like something you are interested in, I welcome you to check out this new support group for moms facilitated by a close friend and one in which I have the pleasure of co-hosting. This last week, we were blessed to have women from around the country join in! Topics include:
*tools to address behavioral challenges specific to these diagnoses
*how to build a positive climate in your home
*dealing with the inaccurate messages we receive from family, society, and the school system
*navigating the world of accomodations, modifications, IEP’s, and the like
*how to address the needs of siblings of differently abled kiddos
or~if you just need a place to be heard, to vent, and to hear that others are going through your journey, too, pm me and I will get you connected.
*this upcoming week, I will be presenting on the power of relationship building with your differently-abled child.
Meetings are held by Zoom Wednesdays 7:00-8:00 PST. Feel free to share and pass the word on!

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